Confront Your MindSet & Conquer Your Fear of Failure
Coaches Corner with
The Conquering Coach
“You Cannot
Conquer What You Will Not Confront!” Have you ever been
arrested? Well, of course you have. We
all have in fact! Perhaps you are thinking,
what a bold statement; along with what are you
talking about Coach Da-Nay? Please be
enlightened by the following. Believe it or
not, we have all been mentally arrested and
psychologically assaulted by our own doing and
being. We have all allowed ourselves to fall
victim to fear. Fear is a distressing negative
sensation induced by a
perceived threat. It is a basic survival mechanism
occurring in response to a specific
stimulus, such as
pain or the threat of danger.
Fear is apparently a universal emotion; all persons,
consciously or unconsciously, have fear in some
sort. Arrested by fear and imprisoned by this
emotions immobilizing state; causes a multitude of
reasons for not operating in our purpose; the
toughest one to grasp is not that we are deficient
in our dreams, resources, time, energy, finances,
and as you may see and know from personal experience
the list goes on. Instantly the following
quote came to me by Marianne Williamson, “Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our
deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most
frightens us.' We ask ourselves, Who am I to be
brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? You are a
child of God. Your playing small does not serve the
world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were
born to make manifest the glory of God that is
within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in
everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we
unconsciously give other people permission to do the
same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our
presence automatically liberates others”. Coaching people over the
years has been liberating. At the same time,
it has shown that self-sabotaging resulting from
stinking thinking is to blame for the above.
You become your own worst critic and begin to deeply
embed stinking thinking inside your consciousness.
Ultimately holding you back from the life you
desire. Do you desire to live life on purpose
and not by default? Then you must learn how to
conquer your fear of failure and stop allowing it to
hold you prisoner inside your own mind. Failures are simply
steppingstones on your way to success "A mind focused on
doubt and fear cannot focus on the journey to
victory."
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Life has made me stronger
and more equipped as a result of these so called
“failures”. Note I have placed the word
failure in quotes, because in my opinion there is no
such thing as failure. Unless you make a
conscious decision to lie down in your life and
allow fear to drive your life. On the other
hand, it is my belief you are more than a conqueror
and victorious. Perhaps you’ve observed some
people — opposing to all opportunity — only becoming
stronger when they “fail”? How might these
individuals manage such a task? They’re only as stable as
YOU allow them to be in your life. They’re only
final if YOU acknowledge defeat and stop trying.
Achievers succeed not because they’re not scared
and/or fearful, but because they overcome fear.
They are more than a conqueror…just like YOU!
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